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When is a splurge worth it

By Anita 45 Comments

When is a splurge worth it? I think when the thing speaks to you. Firstly I think you really need to know your style. Then you need to know what fits with your style and what doesn’t. I have a deep love of French and Italian craftmanship. I am especially enamored with old gilding. So yes I was pretty excited to see this mirror. The downside is that the mirror had been replaced. (sad news) But the wood work was in excellent condition, save one break on the bottom and a rather sloppy repair.

french-mirror

Those things are unfortunate, but if had the original glass and the repair had not been done, the mirror would probably have been worth well over $1,000. I got it for far less. I think because of those issues, it ended up being consigned. And because I am such a regular in certain shops, I sometimes get the first look at things. When I see plain mirrors (even if they are super cheap) I pass them up. I have mirrors. I don’t need any more. But if that mirror is this exquisite, then I am willing to sell something to make room for it.

foyer

You can see I put it in our foyer. I’ve never seen anything like it. No they don’t make mirror like this any more.

 

mirror

This means, what I had on the wall came down, and I’ll be rotating things. Something is going out the door. I just don’t know what yet. So my suggestion is to splurge on something that suits your style and something that you find to be amazing. I would not splurge on a trendy item that will be out of style next year. I also don’t splurge on things that look like something everyone else has. Go for that unique item that showcases your personal style.

mirror-detail

 

Remember I’ve been saying gold is going to be hot this year. I saw so many gold things in the store yesterday.

Here are a few things I found that I think you will LOVE.

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Gold French mirror

Gold mirrored sconce

Gold shield mirror

Gold starburst mirror

 

And now my question to you, what do you splurge on?

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Comments

  1. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    August 14, 2016 at 13:46

    Fabulous mirror….yes, worth the splurge!

    Reply
    • Terri Freeman says

      August 23, 2016 at 19:31

      So unusual! Well Worth the splurge! Terri Freeman

      Reply
  2. susan says

    August 16, 2016 at 10:20

    I totally agree that if you see something unique that you love and you can afford it, you should go for it! I have a lovely print of Carolina parakeets, that is a copy of an Audubon, that my new husband and I splurged on over 40 years ago that I still love. I remember it was so much at the time, but well worth the pleasure it has brought. Enjoy your mirror.
    I don’t care if gold or silver is in, if I like it, I buy it and, HORRORS, I even mix metals!

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  3. Linda Green says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:14

    Finally someone who feels exactly like I do.

    Reply
  4. mary anne f says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:24

    What a great mirror! It’s totally gorgeous and looks great in the entry way!

    Reply
  5. francine says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:30

    I find it so hard to get rid of something even though I just bought something that will take it’s place in my home. How do you deal with the emotional attachment. My family thinks I am a bit nuts….

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    • Anita says

      August 21, 2016 at 14:32

      Francine, have you tried giving your old things to someone who couldn’t afford to buy them? When you see the joy on their faces, you be able to part with stuff. That makes me happy.

      Reply
  6. Deborah says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:41

    Roosters, my house is filled with them, even the living room is themed after them lol.

    Reply
  7. Sue Malizia says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:45

    Yes, an occasional splurge is worth it!!! Love the mirror and how you displayed it. =)

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  8. Cathy says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:53

    Wow! What an amazing splurge mirror. Rather have a quality “find”
    than several okay items !

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  9. Cathy says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:54

    I love to splurge on wall decorations that all can enjoy!

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  10. Jane says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:58

    Stunning and worth the splurge. You are right, you must know your style. I keep working on that issue!

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  11. Patti says

    August 21, 2016 at 13:58

    Lovely mirror! I would have purchased that myself! ?

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  12. Caryn says

    August 21, 2016 at 14:06

    Beautiful mirror! I know what you mean about leaving the NC mountains. I have to drive down to Atlanta and fly home to the San Antonio heat.

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  13. Kiki says

    August 21, 2016 at 14:22

    Beautiful mirror!
    I splurge on Persian rugs. A lovely 50 year old Persian I got a good deal on online (but still pricey for my taste) actually helped us sell our last house. The color, design, and evident luxury of well-made rug enhances any space. The buyers offered us a generous sum to include it in the house sale, but I couldn’t part with it. That same rugs looks wonderful in our current house, too.

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  14. Janice Stewart says

    August 21, 2016 at 14:31

    I like to splurge on a statement piece for a room. Every room needs one. I am getting ready to splurge on rugs. I think they will make the room and bring it all together. I spent all day yesterday shopping for just the right rugs. Love your new mirror.

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  15. Susan says

    August 21, 2016 at 14:45

    I love the mirror, it’s beautiful! I splurge on clocks. The last time I counted I had 15; I don’t have a problem keeping the time lol!

    Thanks for the great post!

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  16. Kim says

    August 21, 2016 at 15:02

    I agree something special to you makes its unique to your home

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  17. Carol says

    August 21, 2016 at 15:09

    What a beautiful find.

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  18. Marla L. says

    August 21, 2016 at 15:34

    I just splurged on a couple rugs. I have old carpet and wanted to hide it as much as I could without having to buy new carpet!! I put one in our bedroom and one in our livingroom. Love them!!

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  19. Sefi says

    August 21, 2016 at 16:34

    Such romantic mirror! First thing that comes to mind is Empress Josephine. Great find!

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  20. Jeanne says

    August 21, 2016 at 16:56

    The mirror is stunning…a great buy at any price. 🙂

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  21. Candy says

    August 21, 2016 at 17:02

    The mirror is gorgeous, love it!

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  22. Mary says

    August 21, 2016 at 17:15

    I love pictures and photographs that speak to me and make me smile. Ones that I never tire of looking at.

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  23. sharon says

    August 21, 2016 at 17:34

    What a beautiful mirror and looks lovely in the hall. Over the years we have splurged on things we still love–a chandelier for the dining room, several art works, some Fitz and Floyd reindeer (large!). You are right, if they fit your taste and make your heart sing without being just trendy, they do make your house your home. Take care in the heat…

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  24. Julie says

    August 21, 2016 at 18:17

    What a find! My serious weakness is dishes. I can’t stop!

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  25. Donnie says

    August 21, 2016 at 19:58

    Heading to North Georgia mountains soon from hot and humid Florida. Looking forward to a change. Love the mirror, so very unusual. Can see why you chose it.

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  26. Kristine Puzel says

    August 21, 2016 at 20:48

    I don’t know if this qualifies as a splurge; it wasn’t expensive but I thought the price was reasonable. I needed a book case or a shelf unit of some kind for a wall in my project room. I wasn’t actively hunting, but was meandering through CraigsList one day and stumbled across the most gorgeous bakers rack that was exactly was I was looking for, even though I wasn’t looking! We hustled up the freeway to bring her back to her new home (the owner was not happy to part with it, but circumstances required it!). And I absolutely love it ! It really is critical to have a good handle on your own taste and style!

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  27. Naomi S. says

    August 21, 2016 at 21:12

    Your mirror is not my style at all and would look out of place in my home, but the craftsmanship on that frame is incredibly beautiful and unique. And I think it was just fine to splurge on it. Every time you look at it you will feel joy and that’s important to a person’s well-being.

    I am prone to splurge on textiles and dishes, although I usually find them pretty reasonably priced at thrift stores and yard sales. Or I might splurge on a vintage farmhouse piece of decor or—dish! If your splurge prevents you from paying the light bill or car insurance, then it’s a bad idea. But if it doesn’t and it gives you happiness just to look at and own, your purchase, then, go ahead and really let yourself enjoy that purchase. That is my take on splurging!

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  28. Julia Sackett says

    August 21, 2016 at 21:25

    I am impressed that something will leave when you introduced the mirror. I aspire to be that way. Hasn’t happened yet, but every day is a second chance. I love your tips.

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  29. Irene Peterson says

    August 21, 2016 at 22:09

    A treasure! Never have I seen one as lovely. I’ll dream about it tonight. Do enjoy.

    When I move into my French style cottage, I shall make that big splurge.

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  30. Elizabeth Brown says

    August 21, 2016 at 22:26

    This is so true. Years ago, I bought a French gilt mirror from Joyce Horn. It’s moved to several homes and into various rooms within those homes. In my current home, it graces the dining room and reflects an antique crystal chandelier. It’s a great piece that I still love.

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  31. Marilyn Jarczak says

    August 26, 2016 at 19:57

    How blessed you are to have found this gorgeous piece. I would imagine every time you look into it you feel special!

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  32. Mary L Jeffers says

    September 4, 2016 at 15:48

    Love love your blog!

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  33. Frani says

    September 16, 2016 at 07:40

    I enjoy your blog so much. Thanks for all the great articles and pictures. I look forward to it every day
    Your mirror is lovely! You don’t see many made so beautifully. What a lucky find.
    The mountains sound good to me too. I am so looking forward to the fall leaves!

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  34. Sherry says

    September 16, 2016 at 08:03

    I’m trying to have a mirror in every room-love how it opens up the area

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  35. Bonnie says

    September 16, 2016 at 13:38

    I love antique furniture and have it in almost everyone room of my house which is very small. One of my daughters told me that I will have to buy a bigger house if I don’t stop buying furniture. I won’t be doing that since I plan to move until it’s time for me to go to an assisted living home – HA!

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  36. Beth says

    September 16, 2016 at 21:08

    Linens are my biggest weakness. I have no willpower when it comes to beautiful bedding. Seeing all your beautiful mirrors makes me think that perhaps I should start searching out unique and beautiful pieces for my own home.

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  37. Patricia Ruehle says

    September 19, 2016 at 20:48

    What a perfectly perfect splurge Anita.

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  38. Carole says

    September 20, 2016 at 16:42

    The mirror is beautiful. Would love to have one just like it.

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  39. Debbie Jones says

    January 4, 2017 at 10:20

    An exquisite showpiece! I adore mirrors and to find a truly unique, one-of-a-kind mirror, is a treasured experience. ENJOY!

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  40. Janet Scafidi says

    January 4, 2017 at 10:29

    I splurged on a similar mirror about 7 years ago. We have now downsized and went from a fairly formal home to making it fit a more casual and comfortable lifestyle (my husband’s, as well). What did I do with the fancy mirror, put it in my bedroom on my side of the bed with a shelf and candle. Just for me!
    Go for it!

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  41. Nancy Walden says

    January 4, 2017 at 19:07

    Love the mirror. I love finding something that just shouts “I was made just for you”! I bought several things last year that I wasn’t looking for but couldn’t resist. My favorites are the large decorative urn–with a lid- an architectural pedestal and an old and very large rustic finial. The urn was perfect for the niche by my fireplace and the pedestal went on the mantle to add more height to the finial. My biggest impulse purchase –in size and in price!–was a new bench for the end of my bed. The old, much smaller tole painted bench, has been re purposed as a coffee table in my office.

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  42. Dianne Lanier says

    May 27, 2017 at 23:17

    Lucky you…that was a gorgeous find!

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When is a Splurge Worth It

By Anita 6 Comments

This is a question I have been asked and I thought it was a question that many of us have. I wish there was one answer that worked for everyone, but I’m not sure there is. Here’s my take on the issue.

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Only you know your budget and of course, that is a big factor. BUT here I have something to say. I know from my own experience I have spent hundreds of dollars (probably thousands over the years) on cheap stuff because I did not think I could afford something nice. Then later it breaks because it is cheap, or it falls apart because it is cheap, or I realize how bad it looks because it is cheap. Then I end up throwing it out, or giving it away, and replacing it down the road. So I pay twice instead of just once. Was the bargain really a bargain?

So now we have a situation where we can’t afford to buy everything we want for a room. Where should we splurge and where should we economize? I know you probably can’t just fill a room with expensive items.

portait

Tip 1: Buy things slowly for the room as you can afford them. Don’t worry about filling the room quickly. (That’s a trap I have fallen into way too often. I want it finished now.)

I like to have at least one WOW item per room, so if this room already has a WOW item, I would look to splurge on another room that does not have one.

lviing-room-with-slipcovers

I want that WOW item to make a big impact in the room, so if I am on a limited budget I want a lot of bang for my buck. What I mean is I am not going to splurge on something small and not noticeable like a sterling silver ladle or little Limoges box. I would focus my attention of something you will notice immediately like a gorgeous pillow or wall art, maybe even a candlestick or lamp.

The painting below was quite expensive, but it was my WOW for this room, and it’s big and very noticeable.

pine-armoire

Tip 2: Spend your money on something that will stand out.

If there is a chair that costs $500 and one that is $2,000, but I can barely tell the difference, then yes I’ll go for the cheaper chair. You want to feel that your money got you something truly special for your room.

The special thing is the thing people will remember about your room. If the rug you want is super duper expensive, I’d go for a simple less expensive one since a rug typically is not the WOW item in a room.

So the bottom line is – splurge on something that will have a big impact on the room. Have at least one splurge (WOW) in each room.

Well that’s my take on it. So what’s yours?

 

 

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  1. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    November 1, 2015 at 06:19

    I have been to antique fairs, filling my arms with stuff…then I look back and say, I could have bought that one great piece for the price of “all the cheap stuff”……. Love your “special pieces” !!

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  2. katzcradul says

    November 1, 2015 at 08:43

    If I’m shopping and I stumble upon a piece that makes my heart leap in my chest, I take notice. I’m not usually an impulse buyer so I walk away. I shop a bit more, and then come back to that piece. If I get the same jolt, I will usually purchase the item…even if it’s a splurge. My gut impression is seldom wrong. I don’t ever try to ‘wow’ anyone but myself, this way, I live in rooms I truly love.

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  3. Jana says

    November 1, 2015 at 10:24

    I’d rather have one very fine thing than a bunch of mediocre things. That means I wait patiently for the right fine thing to come along at the right time. The best rooms are rooms that have evolved over time. They have staying power.

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  4. Cathy Chapman says

    November 1, 2015 at 16:35

    In my interior design career I have always told clients, young or old, to buy high end quality on important pieces in a room, the bed, the sofa, the desk/chair, the armoire, etc. When you start pulling the room together, after that statement piece with perhaps less expensive items (but, never cheap, even if you have to buy them second hand) the statement piece will elevate all the other pieces in the room. If it doesn’t, you know that it’s not the right addition. It happens every time!

    Cathy 🙂

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  5. Michelle Mortensen says

    November 2, 2015 at 00:14

    Great advice! I like to take my time in decorating and remodeling: do it once and do it right. Well, it certainly doesn’t always work out right, so I often have to do it more than once. However, when I save up to purchase something of quality, I am usually very happy. This is especially true when that piece has a WOW factor.
    Best,
    Michelle from simplysantabarbara.blogspot.com

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