I talking about this beautiful striped rug and my daughter moving out today. This post is part of the French Country Friday series, so be sure to scroll to the bottom, so you can see the blogs that are joining me today.
I’ve been dealing with a big change in my life this week. My oldest moved out. She’s 24, so it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it is. She has Down Syndrome and I never thought she would ever move out. But we worry about what happens to her if we aren’t around any more. And, I think I realized at some point that she would probably rather be around people her own age.
So we began talking to other parents and doing research, and we found a place that everyone seems to love. We got on the waiting list, and a few months ago we got a call that they had an opening.
She moved in and seems to be very happy. There are several girls about her age that live in the house, and she goes to a campus during the day that has classes like a college, but different. We miss her terribly. She comes home on the weekends, and we know she is well cared for during the week. Her new room needs a ‘Cedar Hill Farmhouse’ makeover so I have that in the works! I’ll share the progress later. Meanwhile here’s her room at my house.
I just added this gorgeous Dash and Albert rug from Cottages and Bungalows. It’s an indoor/outdoor rug which is great, because often snacks are eaten in here.
I love blue and white, but I thought it would be fun to go with green in this room. The rug has subtle color to it. And I love stripes. I think my favorite style of rug is a flat-weave with a stripe. The rug is a 5×8, that I used sideways at the foot of the bed. The fabric looks like cotton, but this is an indoor/outdoor rug. It’s made from 100% PET, a recycled polyester fiber made from recycled plastic bottles, UV-stabilized to resist fading. I keep thinking it’s cotton; it looks that good.
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That rug is a nice change in the room. I also enjoyed looking at Cottage and Bungalow.
But mostly, I’m happy that your daughter has a place that sounds like it is just right for her. I have a friend who adopted two children with fetal alcohol syndrome, so I know about finding just the right place for people when they come of age. It’s wonderful that you are able to do that for her. I wish her and you all the best.
Connie
Anita,
Could you share where you got the bull picture above your bed?
Kenny, above that photo, it says Savvy Southern Style. Click on that link and it will take you to the Savvy Southern Style blog. That’s Kim’s photo, you can ask her where she got it. I agree, it’s lovely!
Beautiful room. Love the green stripes and the lovely rug. Most of all, I love the lamps. Could you provide information about where to find them or similar? Thank you!
Vicki, those lamps were purchased about 12 years ago, and were discontinued a long time ago. I would suggest going to my Amazon page to see my recommendations there. This is an affiliate link. Amazon.com/shop/cedarhillfarmhouse
Anita, changes are never easy. So happy that you have found a nice place for your daughter. I’m sure she will just love it and how nice that she will be back home on the weekends with her dear family.
Blessings!
Hi Anita, that is a very unselfish change on your part…and I’m sure it was difficult. Many blessings, my friend.
Beautiful rug, Anita. Praying for your as your young ladies spread their wings. 🙂 It’s hard, but I’m glad you have your hubby for companionship! Sounds like it’s the best for her, too! 😉
Yes she loves it! We miss her though.
What a big change for all of you. Praying for your daughter as she adjusts to her new normal and for you as you do the same.
Can you provide information on that lovely green and white bedspread?
Your story touched ny heart with compassion for you and your beautiful daughter. Praying God’s angelic protection for her and peace for you.
Where did you find the beautiful bedspread?
Bettie
Thanks Bettie!!! We miss her, but I’m going to go get her today for the weekend!! The bedspread is from French Laundry Home. They have gorgeous things.
Thanks Bettie!!! We miss her, but I’m going to go get her today for the weekend!! The bedspread is from French Laundry Home. They have gorgeous things.
I have a grandson with Down Syndrome. He’s six. I, too, have wondered about when he gets older and whether he will be able to live on his own. I pray your daughter loves where she has and has a wonderful life.
And God bless you for letting her try.
Anita,
Where did you get the lovely single candle wall sconces above the single bed?
Thanks so much!
Arlyne, they are from Aidan Gray. I love them too!!!
The green stripe bedding is lovely on the bed. Also the rug works with the bedding. Thank you for sharing. Jean
This is a big blessing dear Anita!! I know you miss her, but you DO get her home for the weekends, and, she is doing great there, and is HAPPY there with her peers, so that helps with the change. Later on, day by day, it will get easier for you too! Do something special that makes YOU happy every day too! You deserve it so much for being such a great person and Mom!! Keep the Faith!
Oh hugs Peggy!! You are so sweet and you are so right. This is best for her.