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The Good Neighbor

By Anita 43 Comments

Building our new house is very exciting for me, but I know that not all of my neighbors may share my enthusiasm in the construction process.

For one, there are trucks and workmen on the street most days, along with extra mud when it rains and extra noise.


I didn’t want everyone on the street to dislike me before I even had a chance to move in, so I came up with a plan, a plan to introduce myself and hopefully sow some good will up front.  I don’t know
about you, but when I think of introducing myself, I think cookies.  You too?  See, that’s why we are simpatico   If you didn’t think cookies, it’s okay, you probably like to eat them any way, and that works for me.

 

I whipped up 10 pounds of walnut fudge, and added some cookies to the mix.  I found some adorable and affordable pastry boxes at World Market that will work well for packaging.

For the label, I used a fab graphic from the Graphics Fairy.  I had a hard time deciding which one to use, but this one really popped out at me.  Just like people have a hard time being mad at a cute puppy for tinkling on the carpet, I thought, who could be irritated with a bit of mud in the street, when there are cookies and fudge to eat?

Here’s the graphic I used.  I also added our phone number and email address.  I want to be sure they can reach me if they need to.  If a truck is blocking a driveway, I would prefer that they call me before they call a tow truck.

As I assembled the boxes I remembered to include a box for my builder.  He’s doing a great job, and I want him to know I notice and appreciate his efforts.

P.S. I delivered the cookie boxes and met 3 more of my new neighbors!  They are so friendly, I know we are going to get along so well.  We’ve already been invited over for game night across the street!

P. P. S. Yes, there’s a post-post script, here.  The rest of the story is that there was someone on our street looking for a car to break into a few weeks ago.  Some vigilant neighbors saw the suspect and called the police. As the police pursued him, he jumped into an open window of our new house.  An officer went in after him, and the bad guy was taken into custody from there.  A neighbor gave the police our number so they could contact us about the case.  They used the phone number from my little card.  So see?  It already came in handy. I just had no idea my first phone call would be from the police. 😮

Have you missed any posts on the construction progress? You can catch up here.

 

 

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Comments

  1. Kim @ Savvy Southern Style says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:22

    Such a cute idea to introduce yourself. That is neat that the police caught the guy in your house.

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  2. Anne says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:31

    Anita what a great idea to do this as an introduction.I am sure they appreciate your sweet gesture and will be also watching out for you now too :-)!
    xx
    Anne

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  3. Nancy Carr says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:34

    A wonderful idea. Thanks for sharing.

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  4. Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:46

    That is such a great idea, Anita! Who could resist your offer of friendship {or cookies and fudge!}. : ) Love the cards you made up and it sounds like it was a good idea. I’ll bet you never thought it would have come in handy in that way or so quickly!

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  5. lynn cockrell says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:55

    You are so smart! You didn’t even wait to move in to start building good will. It has been said, often, that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. You don’t have to be a man to appreciate goodies of any kind. Your neighbors probably can’t wait for you to get moved in now!

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  6. Kolein says

    February 27, 2013 at 13:58

    That is one of the loveliest ideas I have seen lately! By the stack of boxes there, you do have many neighbors!!! 🙂

    They get to know who you are and what you represent. They are blessed to have you and your family on their street.

    I think of cookies a lot.

    ps -The Police Dept probably wouldn’t be opposed to a box either! Hee!

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  7. Christine Graves says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:07

    Cute post! Won’t you be MY neighbor”….Totally wish you were my neighbor….Mine move in and an empty box from their move stays in my yard for 4 days until I “nicely” place it back on their froont porch….LOL

    Think I’ll print your post and place it in their mailbox…

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  8. Anita @ Cedar Hill Ranch says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:11

    LOL!! Yes I would have given some cookies to the police, but there weren’t any left!! Sorry Christine about the empty box on your front lawn!! That’s funny. Maybe they just didn’t notice it? Maybe?

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  9. marty (A Stroll Thru Life) says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:14

    What a fabulous way to meet your new neighbors. The boxes look so pretty. Great idea. Hugs, Marty

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  10. Sharon @ mrshinesclass says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:38

    What a lovely idea!

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  11. June G. says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:40

    Hi Anita. That was the nicest gesture. Normally the new neighbor is greeted first by the existing neighbors to be welcomed into the neighborhood…I love that you reached out to them. It is true to have a friend you have to be a friend!! Great lesson for all of us…and I’m sure your cookies and fudge were out of this world delicious! Who could resist being friends with you!
    June 🙂

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  12. Cynthia says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:44

    Anita,

    What a great idea and fantastic that the police caught the man who jumped in your window.

    Cynthia

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  13. Cynthia says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:44

    Anita,

    What a great idea and fantastic that the police caught the man who jumped in your window.

    Cynthia

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  14. Monograms Mud says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:47

    What a lovely way to greet your new neighbors. Thanks for sharing the inspiration.
    Amelia

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  15. Designs By Pinky says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:51

    I wish I ad thought to do this. We met everyone on our street while building. And they were all really nice too. We have become good friends with all the “new” people though, the ones building as we were:) Best of luck in the new house, Anita. I hope you will love it. XO, Pinky

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  16. Korrie@RedHenHome says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:52

    What a wonderful, thoughtful gesture!

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  17. Lisa~A Cottage To Me says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:58

    What a great way to introduce yourself to the new neighbors! Very creative!

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  18. Betsy@ coastal-colors says

    February 27, 2013 at 14:59

    Anita, this is such a cute idea! You are so thoughtful! I know your new neighbors appreciated your kindness! It sounds like you have a wonderful neighborhood! Too funny the guy jumped through your window! You already have a story for your new home!

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  19. Bliss says

    February 27, 2013 at 15:05

    You know what I think? I think you are one smart cookie! If I was having any bad thoughts about the construction mess, they would be tossed out the window when that thoughtful little box arrived.

    Bliss

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  20. Little Cottage on the Pond says

    February 27, 2013 at 15:06

    What a lovely idea! I am so glad you were able to meet some neighbors- helps to make it feel more like home!
    Cookies & fudge….I would let you park in my driveway!

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  21. Yvonne @ StoneGable says

    February 27, 2013 at 16:22

    You will be the most popular neighbor, Anita! What a lovely way to introduce yourself. Good to know your neighbors are watching out for each other!

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  22. Erin Kaven says

    February 27, 2013 at 17:40

    I wish I lived near you! What a lovely idea. I always give cookies for Christmas to all my neighbors and when a neighbor moved in she was shocked to get cookies. She had lived (army) a lot of places both in the US and Europe and no one had ever given her cookies. Just watch out though, they may recruit you for neighborhood president. I was. Don’t go there. Don’t go there.

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  23. Debra @ Common Ground says

    February 27, 2013 at 17:50

    oh, you’re so sweet, this is such a great idea! Little thoughtful touches make such a huge difference to people, and I love the part about the cute puppy tinkling on the carpet!

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  24. Lisa @ Fern Creek Cottage says

    February 27, 2013 at 18:04

    Such a smart and thoughtful idea Anita! I’m sure your neighbors are enjoying their goodies and thinking good thoughts about you! Sounds like you’ll have plenty of new friends when you move in!

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  25. Ellie VanCaster says

    February 27, 2013 at 18:28

    What a generous and fabulous idea-just love it.

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  26. SheilaG @ Plum Doodles says

    February 27, 2013 at 18:38

    That is such a sweet and thoughtful way to introduce yourself. And what a blessing it turned out to be, that your neighbor had your phone # for the police.

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  27. Jill Flory of Sew a Fine Seam says

    February 27, 2013 at 20:03

    What a wonderful way to meet your new neighbors! And how nice that they had your number when they needed it! Hopefully that doesn’t happen too often that they need to give your number to the police! EEEK!

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  28. Karen Mary Butterfly says

    February 27, 2013 at 20:12

    Fudge and cookies??? You could make all the noise you want!! That’s so sweet 😉 Pretty packaging and I love the graphic you picked!
    Karen

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  29. On Crooked Creek says

    February 27, 2013 at 20:44

    Anita,
    YuMMy!!!
    I want to get to know the neighbor who makes fudge AND bakes cookies,for sure!!!
    It’s been over 10 years since we moved in…but I’ll never forget the kindness of the sweet neighbor who brought cinnamon rolls and a carafe of coffee to “Mr.Ed” in our garage. Sadly, the next year she had to re~locate out~of~State to keep her employment. We were fortunate enough to repeat her kind favor during her move…with tears streaming down both our faces!!!
    I adore the sweet little notes on your “goodies”!!!
    Thanks for sharing!!!
    Fondly,
    Pat

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  30. Sarah says

    February 27, 2013 at 21:14

    This is a thoughtful idea. It’s important to know and befriend our neighbors. ‘-)

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  31. Dayle @ A Collection of This and That says

    February 27, 2013 at 21:55

    What a wonderful idea. Love how it came together.

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  32. Petticoat Junktion says

    February 27, 2013 at 23:53

    I’m sure all the neighbors love you after delivering the yummy treats and such perfect packaging. Thanks for sharing.

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  33. Judy says

    February 28, 2013 at 01:01

    i’ve just got one thing to say: won’t you be my neighbor!?

    the boxed cookie idea is genius as well as your personalized card…how wonderful that one of your new neighbors was able to thwart the bad guy and get in touch with you and the police.

    great idea!

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  34. Keeping It Cozy says

    February 28, 2013 at 01:02

    I love everything about this… the thoughtfulness, the cute packaging, and so useful too! 🙂

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  35. Pamela says

    February 28, 2013 at 01:12

    What a cute idea Anita!

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  36. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    February 28, 2013 at 02:18

    What a wonderful idea and thoughtful way to introduce yourself to the neighbors…Sounds like you have wonderful neighbors that look after each other and extend gracious invitations already!…Sounds like you will be very happy there!!

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  37. Lori says

    February 28, 2013 at 12:20

    I bet they love you already!

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  38. Elizabeth (Blue Clear Sky) says

    March 4, 2013 at 23:04

    What a lovely way to introduce yourselves. If they were inconvenienced before, I’m sure just you acknowledging that it can cause a bit of upheavel made the neighbours feel better.

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  39. Karen Watson says

    March 5, 2013 at 20:39

    Oh my, you are a good neighbor!! What a darling gift, I’m so glad my little graphic came in handy! Such a great idea!

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  40. Amy Kinser says

    March 16, 2013 at 17:05

    What a wonderful idea! I love how thoughtful and smart you are.

    Wish I was one of your neighbors receiving on of those delightful goody boxes.

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  41. A pauley says

    February 9, 2014 at 21:21

    Awesome idea and so pretty!

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  42. Larain Shannon says

    March 17, 2015 at 16:39

    What a fabulous idea, I am also building but as it is a new site everybody is in the same position. Your idea came in handy as a way to introduce our family at our new address (small family, hubby, Labrador and me). I will use your tag wish was so nice with a little editing.

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  43. Lynn Richards says

    March 17, 2015 at 18:48

    We recently bought a home that we plan to gut and remodel. I have met a couple of neighbors, who seem very nice. We began with some tree removal, which brought on a rash of phone calls from an unknown neighbor reporting us to the city. The phone calls cost us time and money as they brought out all kinds of city officials to stop whatever we were doing.
    I got pretty frustrated and made a huge sign that said:dear neighbor who keeps calling the city on us, please come over for coffee on Sunday at 5:30 and we will be happy to show you our plans for this house”
    We met several more fabulous neighbors, but never the one who has called the city on us.
    Maybe I should have started out with fudge!!

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