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The Biggest Misconception about Decorating

By Anita 11 Comments

HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE.

If you missed my Easter post from last week, you can find it HERE.

I know some will disagree with what I am about to say, and I’m okay with that. I am glad that decorating rules are fluid and that we each have our own interpretation and style. I think the world would be boring if we all agreed and had exactly the same opinion.

Sometimes people ask what they should put above their cabinets, in that difficult to reach space, or  on that super large wall.

I think that is a very good question. But I think there is a MORE important question to ask before the ‘what should I put here’ question.

The first question I think that should be asked is ‘Do I need to put anything here or should I just leave it as it is?’

Let’s take a look a these built in cabinets. See all of the stuff on top? Does it look better this way?

living-room

Or this way with nothing on top? Some will prefer the first photo, but I am leaning more and more toward the look below. Also note fewer things in the cabinets.

living-room

Often the answer is that you don’t NEED to put anything in that awkward space. And since many are on a budget, hopefully, that is good news. (Of course if you WANT something there, that is another story. I always believe the space needs to make you happy.)

Here is what I HONESTLY think is going on. Sometimes we try to decorate a room and something isn’t quite right. It has happened to me many, many times. My next question is ‘what is wrong with the room?’ Is it missing something, or does it need something removed or does it need to be rearranged?

I think this is the point where many people just assume the fix is add something to the room, without first analyzing what the real problem is. If the problem is that the chair doesn’t go well with the sofa, then adding more artwork is not going to fix it.

Our room below was really bugging me. I felt the artwork was too dark and not sized properly for the space. I also felt the lamps were too dark. Then I realized the room would look better if I switched the sofa and the bench. But a big part of this fix here was getting rid of one end table and the big chair in the corner.

living room

To accomplish this change I rearranged some things, gave away some stuff, and moved things around. The only purchases were the table in the corner and the stuff to make the blackboard. The screen door was free. To see the tutorial for the chalkboard, CLICK HERE.

French table and sofa

Swedish-bench-living-room

 

Later I went with this even more simplified look to open up the space.

living-room-pink

 

First try to figure out what is wrong before you start adding more things to a room. 

It might not need anything added. Maybe it needs something removed. 

The second thing I want to add is that you NEED blank spaces. When I used to design statistics courses, the instructional designer used to say ‘We need a lot of white space.’ I think rooms need white space or blank spaces also. The room needs to breathe visually. The only artwork on the back wall is the mirror above the bed. There is a mirror above the chest and that is about it for this room. It has very little artwork in here.

hay edited

Every bare space does not need to be covered. 

Sometimes what I do to fix a room has more to do with what I remove then what I add to the room. Remember the old rule that before you leave your house you should remove one piece of jewelry? Well it also works in the interior decorating world as well.  Try removing things.

Here I have a big desk, big artwork and 3 chairs. I changed them out for a much smaller desk, one chair and smaller artwork. I simplified the space.

bedroom desk hr

I like the look with more ‘blank’ space.

arched-art-over-desk

Once I painted a wall pink. I thought the paint looked terrible, a bit too Pepto Bismal for my taste. I decided that I would keep painting and see if it looked better. (It didn’t.) The only solution was to go back, buy more paint, and paint over the pink. Adding artwork to that wall as a fix would have been like moving deck chairs around on the Titanic.

The wrong color paint can make you very unhappy with a room. Sadly the only fix is repainting the room. Believe me, I’ve tried everything else in the book.

 

 

 

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Comments

  1. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    March 27, 2016 at 10:16

    Great post Anita….Happy Easter to you and your family!

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  2. Angelina at Peonies & Orange Blossoms says

    March 27, 2016 at 12:46

    These are some great tips! Happy Easter!

    Reply
  3. Leticia says

    March 27, 2016 at 15:09

    I Love this post! Very informative…Thank you so much for sharing. It is very inspiring!
    Happy Easter to you. Leticia

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  4. Sandra says

    March 27, 2016 at 23:55

    I really enjoyed reading your post. I subscribe to the “less is more” school of thought when it comes to most things, especially my home décor. I use color and fabrics to add interest and dimension – and sometimes that is too much. I like your starting question best as it challenges conventional thinking.
    Sandra
    http://www.lowcountryfelicitylife.com

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    • Anita says

      March 28, 2016 at 09:16

      Thank you Sandra! Sounds like we think alike.

      Reply
  5. Cindy in Oklahoma says

    March 28, 2016 at 15:42

    Great post. The older I become, the more “less is more” I get. You can quote me on that if you’d like! haha!

    Reply
  6. Abril mortensen says

    March 31, 2016 at 12:27

    I love this post and i couldn’t agree more. When we moved into our new townhome, 3 different people asked me what I was gonna put above the cabinets in my kitchen, but I had seen that the previous owners put lots of things like vine plants and i didn’t want my kitchen to look so crowded, ’cause it’s already a small space. So I just left it like that, it looks empty and I love it! We really don’t need so many things in our house.

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  7. sharon protzmann says

    April 3, 2016 at 16:35

    Do you plan to carry the hugging bunnies again?

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    • Anita says

      April 3, 2016 at 22:02

      Yes Sharon. I will try to get them in again.

      Reply
  8. Kddomingue says

    October 12, 2016 at 13:21

    Glad to have come across this post. I’m in the midst of simplifying my home and sending a lot of things….. including the sofa……to live at someone else’s house. This post gave a boost to my motivation which was beginning to run out of steam!

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    • Anita says

      October 12, 2016 at 15:20

      Keep going!!!

      Reply

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